Proverbs 25:21-22
If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; if he is thirsty, give him water to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head, and the LORD will reward you.
Let's face it, it's tough to love our enemies. After somebody has just been a jerk to you, you don't really feel like helping them out. How much do you want to serve someone who is always mean and disrespectful to you?
Notice that this Proverb isn't saying that we need to start hanging out with our enemies and spend hour-upon-hour socializing with them. What it is saying is when you see your enemy in need, help him out.
If your enemy is a co-worker look for ways to serve her. Grab her a cup of coffee when you go to grab one for yourself. Share information with him if you know that he is struggling on a project. Take her to lunch if she has just been kicked in the teeth by a client or a prospect.
If your enemy is at church take the time to get to know him. Let him know that you have a problem with him, and be clear about why that is. Then give him a chance to explain himself. Sincerely try to understand him. Try to see the world from his perspective. What are some of his experiences that influence his attitude? After this you may still not be friends, but you will gain more respect for each other.
When you make this effort to love your enemies you may only get more venom in return. If you are truly one of God's children, then you need to do this no matter how the other person responds to your efforts. Jesus didn't command us to win our enemies, He commanded us to love our enemies. The reward for all of your love me only be "the heaping of burning coals on their head". Meaning that your display of love will expose them to the world, and to themselves. This doesn't mean that they will thank you for your love and kindness; they may grow to hate you even more, because your love has exposed their hateful heart to themself.
No matter what the response is, keep serving them...keep loving them. They need it most of all. Be thankful that Jesus kept loving you, even when you didn't appreciate everything He has done for you. There was a day when you were Jesus' enemy. He died for you even though you still have days when you treat Him with contempt and in-gratitude.
We can love our enemies, because while we were still sinners Jesus died for us.
Happy Thanksgiving!
Jason Fredrick
If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; if he is thirsty, give him water to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head, and the LORD will reward you.
Let's face it, it's tough to love our enemies. After somebody has just been a jerk to you, you don't really feel like helping them out. How much do you want to serve someone who is always mean and disrespectful to you?
Notice that this Proverb isn't saying that we need to start hanging out with our enemies and spend hour-upon-hour socializing with them. What it is saying is when you see your enemy in need, help him out.
If your enemy is a co-worker look for ways to serve her. Grab her a cup of coffee when you go to grab one for yourself. Share information with him if you know that he is struggling on a project. Take her to lunch if she has just been kicked in the teeth by a client or a prospect.
If your enemy is at church take the time to get to know him. Let him know that you have a problem with him, and be clear about why that is. Then give him a chance to explain himself. Sincerely try to understand him. Try to see the world from his perspective. What are some of his experiences that influence his attitude? After this you may still not be friends, but you will gain more respect for each other.
When you make this effort to love your enemies you may only get more venom in return. If you are truly one of God's children, then you need to do this no matter how the other person responds to your efforts. Jesus didn't command us to win our enemies, He commanded us to love our enemies. The reward for all of your love me only be "the heaping of burning coals on their head". Meaning that your display of love will expose them to the world, and to themselves. This doesn't mean that they will thank you for your love and kindness; they may grow to hate you even more, because your love has exposed their hateful heart to themself.
No matter what the response is, keep serving them...keep loving them. They need it most of all. Be thankful that Jesus kept loving you, even when you didn't appreciate everything He has done for you. There was a day when you were Jesus' enemy. He died for you even though you still have days when you treat Him with contempt and in-gratitude.
We can love our enemies, because while we were still sinners Jesus died for us.
Happy Thanksgiving!
Jason Fredrick