Saturday, June 29, 2019

Learn to Love Discipline

Proverb s 12:1

Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but he who hates correction is stupid.

Do you love discipline?  Do you even like discipline?
Most people do not.  
I love the results of discipline, but I cannot honestly say that I love discipline.

One thing that I have learned is that self-discipline is preferable to external discipline.  The reality is that you will be disciplined; it will come from three different sources: Yourself, God, and the world (God's natural laws, i.e. The Law of Cause and Effect).  So, if you are going to be disciplined anyways, doesn't it make sense that you would discipline yourself as much as possible?

Let's look at what Solomon said above:  Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge...
Wisdom and real, beneficial, knowledge is tough to acquire.  It takes discipline.  There are so many distractions in our life that we have to be intentional about learning and self-improvement.  The reality is that discipline can be painful or uncomfortable sometimes.  It can seem like we have to give up something that we really love, and maybe you will.  The reality and purpose of discipline is that there is something better available for us, something that we want most, something that is perfectly aligned with God's plan for our lives, and ultimately there is a right and wrong way to live our lives.   It takes discipline to walk the narrow road, and it is the narrow road that leads to life- eternal life in heaven.

This needs to be our motivation for self-discipline.  We want to discipline ourselves to walk that narrow road as a way to say, "Thank you" to Jesus for everything that He has done for us.  This doesn't just mean curbing our sinful actions and desires; it also means disciplining ourselves to develop and use all of the gifts He has given us.

This is why Solomon said, "...but he who hates correction is stupid."  When we look at discipline in this light, won't we love it?  Won't we want more of it?  Anyone who doesn't is stupid.  Anyone who hates discipline hates being led back to Jesus, and His plan for us.  Sadly, because of our sinful nature we are all guilty of being stupid at times.  Fortunately, Jesus loves us enough to be patient with our stupidity and to continually discipline us.

What's the best way to learn to love discipline?  Results.  The results of discipline help us to learn to love it.  When we see how Jesus pulls us closer to Him through discipline, we love it and want more of it because we want to be closer to Him.  When we see our health and fitness improve because we discipline ourselves with regular exercise and a healthy diet, it motivates us to love that discipline.  When we have better ideas and greater understanding from the discipline to read an hour every day, we learn to love that discipline.  When we see the positive impact our lives and our efforts have on the people God has placed in our lives, we love how Jesus has disciplined us over the years.  Eventually, we even become thankful for all the discipline we have received over our lifetime.

It's interesting that Solomon is saying here that knowledge comes from discipline and correction.
Anyone who loves discipline and correction ultimately loves knowledge.
Anyone who hates discipline and correction hates knowledge, and is therefore stupid.

Proverbs 15:10  Stern discipline awaits him who leaves the path; he who hates correction will die.

Matthew 6:13-14  "Enter through the narrow gate.  For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it.  But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it."

My prayer for you is that Jesus will continue to love you with His discipline.

God bless
Jason Fredrick

Friday, June 21, 2019

Discipleship is Not Getting Your Children to Choose Jesus

Helping our Children Follow Jesus is not about helping them make a logical or emotional choice for Jesus.  Instead it is exposing them to the illogical choice that our God’s heart made in choosing us as his children by the resurrection of Jesus. Subscribe to the Christ for Disciplers Podcast to learn more...



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Thursday, June 20, 2019

Train Your Children to Know God's Love Comes First

Children can mistakenly think they are loved only because they are lovable or love first.  Parents can unintentionally give that impression or act that way. God’s love was around thousands of years before our children existed and is there regardless of the lovableness of us or our children.  It came first. Subscribe to the Christ for Disciplers Podcast to learn more...



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Wednesday, June 19, 2019

Real Servant-Leadership is Powered by Christ

Proverbs 28:10

He who leads the upright along an evil path will fall into his own trap, but the blameless will receive a good inheritance.

Here is the difference between good leadership and bad leadership:  Where are you leading people?  Not only is is this Proverb talking about your skill and ability as a leader, but it really speaks to your heart.  What are you leading people for?  What is your desired outcome?

Often, leaders who are leading people down an evil path don't realize it.  They have been so deceived by Satan that they believe what they are doing is good.  Often times they even convince people that what they are doing is from God.  This is just as true for cult leaders as it can be for business leaders.  One of the easiest ways to tell a Godly leader from an evil leader is by honestly looking at who's being served by the efforts of the leader and the team.

Sadly, too many people develop their leadership skills for the purpose of personal gain.  They learn people skills so they can win people's trust which makes it much easier to manipulate them.  People skills can also be used to build loyalty which also makes it much easier to manipulate people.  Ultimately, this bad leader is a con-man, a charlatan.  He knows how to gain people's confidence with psychology and acting, but this deception cannot last forever.  Eventually he falls into his own trap.

We don't have to look far for examples of this.  We see this fall from grace in business, in politics, and sadly, even in the church.  How many times a year does the news tell us all the sordid details of the implosion of one of these leaders.  There are almost always warning signs, but people become so enamored with the vision or the "cult of personality" that they become blind to them.  If anyone tries to point out these warning signs often times the members of that community will become very defensive.  They will either want to argue with you or just avoid the conversation altogether.  This is how the upright end up on an evil path.

What are some of the warning signs?

  • Every single aspect of the organization is about the leader.
  • All information coming into the community has to be filtered through the leader.
  • People are taken advantage of for financial gain.  
  • The leader is becoming wealthy or famous off the efforts and finances of his followers.
  • Certain aspects of the organization contradict, or even attack God's Word. 
  • You have been warned by two or more people about your organization, and especially the leader.
Sadly, because we live in a sin-cursed world there is an abundance of examples of the bad leader.  Ultimately, that is the default mode of every human being.  We are all, by nature, selfish.  So how can there be truly good leaders if that is true?

The answer to that question is actually quite simple, but most people don't want to hear it:  JESUS!
The only way to become a good leader is by being empowered by Jesus Christ.  We can only become a selfless, servant leader through faith in Jesus.  We can only have faith in Jesus through the power of the Holy Spirit working in us, it is entirely a gift from Him.  The Holy Spirit can only work in us if we are baptized, and constantly reading and studying God's Word (the Bible).

I told you it was simple.  I also told you that most people don't want to hear it, but the truth is the truth.  It is not subject to anyone's desires or feelings.
The reality of Leadership Development is that you can work on yourself until the cows come home, but if you don't have Jesus- you don't have anything.  Without Jesus all of your efforts are selfish and ultimately for yourself, no matter what you might claim to the contrary.

Isaiah 64:6

All of us have become like one who is unclean, and all our righteous acts are like filthy rags; we all shrivel up like a leaf, and like the wind our sins sweep us away.

Thankfully, Jesus has died for our sins.  All of our sins have been washed away by His blood.  It is Jesus who gives us the power to live for Him, and please our Heavenly Father with a life of selfless service.  
To be God be the glory!

Jason Fredrick


Sanctify Your Children

One of the ways to describe the process of leading children to follow Jesus is to sanctify them.  This means that they would grow in becoming more and more holy, or set apart for God, as they live their lives.  Only God’s true word can do this. Subscribe to the Christ for Disciplers Podcast to learn more...



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Tuesday, June 18, 2019

Disciple Your Children because they are Sinners

As soon as children are able to do something, parents can see their sin. Parents do not need to train their children to be selfish, prideful or jealous, but they do need to disciple them to follow Christ and live with virtue. Subscribe to the Christ for Disciplers Podcast to learn more...



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Monday, June 17, 2019

Disciple Your Children to Know a Good Trade

In a fairy tale a foolish son trades a farm animal for beans.  In the Bible we learn that God’s perfect son traded his perfection for our wounds.  Train your children to love that unfair trade and never give it back. Subscribe to the Christ for Disciplers Podcast to learn more...



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Friday, June 14, 2019

Disciple Your Children to Know Their Righteousness

As a parent do you love your children enough to see their imperfections as if they were perfect?  Because of Jesus, God sees our “good deeds” as if they were Jesus’ perfect deeds. Subscribe to the Christ for Disciplers Podcast to learn more...



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Thursday, June 13, 2019

Disciple Your Children to Trust God When They Pray

Don’t let your children see prayer as the last option.  A conversation with God is the start, middle and finish of any plan or purpose.  The One who is the power of the universe has His ears attuned to His children. Subscribe to the Christ for Disciplers Podcast to learn more...



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Wednesday, June 12, 2019

Disciple Your Children to Use God's Dynamite

Parents search for the most powerful tools and methods to disciple their children.  The most powerful tool is the Good News that Jesus saved the world. Subscribe to the Christ for Disciplers Podcast to learn more...



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Tuesday, June 11, 2019

Train Your Children to Appreciate What They Did Not Earn

Children can be disappointed that they do not earn as much per hour as others.  It may seem unfair. Christian parents train their children to appreciate what God gives them and the wages they deserve from God.  Subscribe to the Christ for Disciplers Podcast to learn more...



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Monday, June 10, 2019

Disciple Your Children to Know Both Extremes

There are two truths that our children might forget or just as bad, downplay a bit.  One is that all have sinned and the other is that Jesus redeemed and justified the same people freely.  Christian parents strive to drive home the extremes of both teachings. Subscribe to the Christ for Disciplers Podcast to learn more...



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Friday, June 7, 2019

Disciple Your Children Like Sheep

Those who are good at raising farm animals fall in love with them. Our God uses the picture of a shepherd to illustrate his love for us.  Modern parents have to explain this picture to their children. Subscribe to the Christ For Disciplers podcast.



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Thursday, June 6, 2019

God Started Discipling Your Children Thousands of Years Ago

God’s love for our children started with His choice to start the world which would lead to each of them.  Creation is they foundation for understanding God’s love in Christ. Subscribe to the Christ for Disciplers Podcast to learn more...



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Wednesday, June 5, 2019

Disciple Your Children to Know Their Why

The youngest generation has more possibilities than ever with an instant connection to the world in their pocket.  But they seem to have the least amount of purpose in life. Christian parents can train their children in their real mission using Matthew 28:19. Subscribe to the Christ for Disciplers Podcast to learn more...


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Tuesday, June 4, 2019

Disciple Your Children About What does Not Save Them

Our children’s instinct is think they somehow earn their relationship with God.  Parents are in the unique place to teach them they are not. Ephesians 2:8-9 is the training Bible verse to use. Subscribe to the Christ for Disciplers Podcast to learn more...



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Monday, June 3, 2019

Disciple Your Children With the Gospel in Their Heart

Children grow and leave their parents.  Christian parents make sure they have God’s word stuck with them as they leave.  Having them memorize John 3:16 is a good start. Subscribe to the Christ for Disciplers Podcast to learn more...



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